Its easy to look at marriage as the culmination of lovethe end point of the journey that begins with falling in love. . We are in the middle of individual presentations right now on their Enneagram types, and I have two students who are torn between 4 and 7. These online courses provide an easy way to dive in deeper to some of Cynthias most powerful teachings without having to leave home! Cynthia , Are there any books that approach the depth and redemptive analysis for the Four as Cynthias post has done for the Seven? And the lines to 5 and 1, do these those connections seem right as well? More and more, love draws its replenishment from love itself: from the practice of conscious love, expressed in your mutual servanthood to one another. My first experience of the Divine was at 7 and my hyperactive little body was frozen on the love seat as my dad described the love of God. And conscious love deepens and becomes more and more rooted. . . I have have always described the effect in my experience of being overwhelmed by the love of God as this stillness that comes over my body and mind. suffocating, . . Bea Chestnut uses Claudio Naranjos insightful understanding of the three subtypes under each type. To bear [also] means to give birth, to be fruitful. So love is that which in any situation is the most life-giving and fruitful. Would I ever be released? Transformation for the Seven: The Holy Idea and Virtue, Sit in your cell and it will teach you everything. This is indeed the terrifying eye of the needle the Seven will have to thread to move from choice freedom (as both Thomas Merton and Beatrice Bruteau call it) i.e., freedom experienced as keeping my options open, to spontaneity freedom: freedom experienced as the capacity to say yes wholeheartedly to NOW; freedom to trust the primordial nurturing to be found only in the plenitude of presence. Probably the best on practical prayer I have ever read. Cynthia said that "centering prayer grows an inner ground of receptivity, a place to rest and assimilate". a way of perceiving that leads to cynicism and divisiveness, a closing off of possibility; and there is a way that leads to higher faith and love, to a higher and more fruitful outcome. I at first self-identified as a 7 but I was confused by some of the same descriptions you outline here. In the end I had to let go of feeling loved by either parent. I was gratified, Cynthia, to read your dissatisfaction with how 7s are portrayed. I became an entrepreneur at a young age because I was terrified of being tied down by a job, but I dedicated my career to social justice and helping as many people as I could through my work. Reading this post encourages me to revisit the Enneagram and see if I can make more sense of it this time. My Dear Cynthia, An underlying sense of disconnection between call and response, appearance and reality became the filter through which the seven learned to view the world, leading to a chronic (and at times acute) sense of existential dread. Cynthia Bourgeault on Surrender #3 Cynthia Bourgeault offers an important caution for practitioners of Centering Prayer. Schools and Wisdom hubs also grew up in the UK, New Zealand, South Africa, and Hong Kong, as Cynthia continued to roll out new books and found herself increasingly in demand as a conference and retreat leader. Dont fall asleep. Spiritual or mental sloth; apathy. Look for opportunities to be present and give presence., The three centers of awareness need to be in dialogue in order for you to think and be., Our talent, our gift, is our willingness to enter the reciprocal dance with whatever cards weve been dealt in this plane., The fruits of the spirit are attained as we begin to live at a higher level of being., Unbinding cleanses the lens of perception so we can see the abundance. Resilient and inherently life-loving and optimistic, Sevens learned early on to become skilled self-nurturers but always with that signature Seven wound: a restless addiction to forward motion and hyper-vigilance against any form of confinement that would appear to limit their options, cut off their escape routes, or impinge upon their ability to help themselves. Sevens need to feel the wind whistling in their ears to outrun a pervasive sense of existential dread and emptiness, an inability to rest comfortably in their own skins. At those times when stress mounts and romance seems far away, how do you practice that conscious love that will renew itself and renew your relationship? One of the most fascinating, humbling, and awe-inspiring books Ive read in years. ~ Brian D. McLaren, author/speaker/activist. . Music. This is their great spiritual challenge. Beware the incomplete observation. As soon as you make judgment, you are not seeing., Imaginal seeing matches Imaginal selfhood., We perceive wisdom entering from a higher level as the future., The timeless wisdom that comes to us from another realm when we wake up is what we know as the future., The future is not what lies ahead, but the larger dimensions of the whole. Her pilot Wisdom School was offered there in July 1999, and twenty years later the Victoria-based Contemplative Society is still going strong and is our closest partner in the Wisdom Waypoints network. Cynthia says: More detail on these books can be found here. Cynthia Bourgeault is a masterful guide to Jesus's vision and to the traditional contemplative practices you can use to experience the heart of his teachings for yourself. . For many sevens, the profile of gluttony may indeed appear to fit superficially, at least. As children, sevens felt trapped, subject to the authority of caregivers who seemed unresponsive or even inexplicably hostile to their deepest being needs. Cynthia Bourgeault: Well, [laughs] that' From time to time, we also offer teaching and exploration of foundational contemplative practices eg; Centering Prayer, Welcome Practice, Lectio Divina. The book is magnificent; another writing to live on- to love through ~ Rev. There are numerous opportunities to participate in a variety of online formats, as offered by partnering organizations and course providers. She went on to earn a Ph.D. in Medieval Studies, where she specialized in early music and liturgical drama: training that would prove to serve her well in her later work as a spiritual teacher. She is a faculty member emeritus of the Center for Action and Contemplation and the founding director of an international network of Wisdom schools, uniting classic Christian mystical and . The arrows of equilibrium and disequilbrium for numbers 1, 3, 6, 8, 9 include the trinity of body, mind, and spirit (heart) unlike the other numbers 2, 4, 5, 7 which do not. Working with the Enneagram was key in noticing what blocked deeply felt connections. Several Benedictine sisters suggested I was a partly redeemed 9. It is whole. Loved your sharing on Buddha at the Gas Pump! This eliminates the paradox and ambiguity of a non-dualistic audience. The outer layers of meaning. I will be publicly pushing the bookas all of themwhenever I find a crowd ready for such inner work and brilliance.~Fr. Cynthia Bourgeault is a modern day mystic, Episcopal priest, writer, and internationally acclaimed retreat leader. Published by the Monkfish Book Publishing Company. . The price of admission is your narrative self, which is grounded in time., When you do conscious work, or any act of altruism, it is for the future., Time is a measure of resistance. Music is an art form and cultural activity whose medium is sound organized in time. I do think its important to accurately understand our chief feature, but we can spend a lot of time thinking on this, and I wonder if at times unhelpfully. At a time when the trust level in our world has fallen to a catastrophic low, Cynthia Bourgeault provides a deep immersion into another way of working with trust. Each type is expressed differently depending on our instinct stack self preservation, sexual, and social (Im sure you know this, Im just mentioning it for others posting here). This Seven is considered a counter-type, because this type expresses a kind of counter-gluttony. To quote Chestnut again, Social Sevens go against the Seven passion of gluttony in that they sacrifice their gluttony to become a better person and to work for a better world in which there is no pain or conflict. What then? I, too, am a Seven, once diagnosed as a Four. I will speak more about turning farther along. I learned some of the depths of 7 while leading a panel of sevens. The Author of eight books and Contributor to many articles and courses on the Christian spiritual life, she lectu. CAC core faculty member, Cynthia Bourgeault, beautifully describes growth in "conscious love" in her sermon, given at her daughter's wedding. vincent. . This book is part of the My Theology series, featuring the worlds leading Christian thinkers explaining some of the principal tenets of their theological beliefs in concise, pocket-sized books. She studied at the Philadelphia Divinity School and was ordained a priest in the Episcopal Church in 1979. And I wonder if other 7s have had this double bind start to attachment. She examines how the practice is related to the classic tradition of Christian contemplation, looks at the distinct nuances of its method, and explores its revolutionary potential to transform Christian life. Hey Cynthia, Im in the process of becoming certified to teach the Enneagram and found myself landing squarely in the 7. By skillfully tapping into that source we can begin to rebuild trust within our own lives, and also contribute to its cultivation within our shattered world. At a time when people are yearning for good news, Cynthia Bourgeaults new book invites us to find our way to the hope that does not disappoint or fail. register, then believe, that God saw me. The topics explored in theme range widely within the her four core areas of interest: Centering Prayer, Christian Wisdom, The Western Esoteric Tradition, and Conscious Love. Any title suggestions would be greatly appreciated. She is a long-time teacher of the . Then we are able to maintain a stable access route to the higher information thats always coming to us., As you move into Imaginal causality, conscience takes the place of attraction and aversion as the mover of your being., A conscious human being participates in the whole and generates the required radial energy through the transformed substance of their life., What we call virtues or qualities in world 48 (our realm) are energy streams in world 24 (the Imaginal realm), subtle substances that are nutrients for our planet., The fruits of the spirit (love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control) are alchemical byproducts of conscious work and intentional suffering. Cynthia Bourgeault About the Author Cynthia Bourgeault has studied and taught in a number of Benedictine monasteries in the United States and Canada. Grief. to rest in God is the demand. It is invisible to the physical eye, but clearly perceptible through the eye of the heart. For example, whilst I have a 5 wing and some patterning across multiple types, Id say I can identify strongly with the 4-1-7 of the idealist/frustration triad and so I expect to find myself moving amongst those key types depending on various factors. 179) Sobriety inspires Sevens to let go seeking out thehighs of pleasurable experiences, whether they are related to physical appetites, intellectual activity, or spiritual process. Maitri quotes Ichazo as describing sobriety as giving the body its sense of proportion, and as being in a state firmly grounded in the moment, in which you take in no more and no less than you need. This, to me, is what you were saying in the blog using different language. You cant move a plank youre standing on! Rev. Privacy Policy. When you were saying that you come up as a more dutiful type on some of the tests, it would seem, according to the descriptions in The Complete Enneagram, that you are probably the counter-type, or Social Seven. Thomas Keating. They postpone their own desires in order to enact an ideal of service. She has four pages on this subtype, which being a counter-type doesnt look like a Seven. Herein may be some of why you had so much confusion in identifying as a Seven. Cynthia Bourgeault is a modern-day mystic, Christian contemplative, Episcopal priest, and scholar, who has been a way-shower for many thousands of people around the world, sharing the riches of Christian, Sufi, and Gurdjieffian contemplative practices, as well as serving as a fierce constructive critic. She is a faculty member emeritus of the Center for Action and Contemplation and the founding director of an international network of Wisdom schools, uniting classic Christian mystical and monastic teaching with contemporary practices of mindfulness and embodied presence. As I was experienced in the daily routine of Buddhist retreats, I found the routine at this Wisdom retreat . And yeah, after all these years, Im finally claiming Seven as my home plate. Founding director of Northeast Wisdom/ Wisdom Waypoints, The Contemplative Society and The Aspen Wisdom School, Cynthia is also a core faculty . Somehow Type 7 kept nudging my attention even after a conversation with Leslie Hershberger. Over seventeen years Lily would show me how concern can be one of the deepest forms of love. If in trying to elucidate the deeper waters of the Seven I prove myself indubitably a Four, so be it. It follows must naturally when this becomes an all consuming passion that gluttony rules. They both have asked me to help clarify, and I really didnt know what to say, so Im very pleased to see you addressing this question. To the extent that we touch and be in abundance in our own life, we become prophets of hope., The deep surrender of self through Kenosis is the access path to abundance, not your will., Imaginal causality is patterned. What a revelation!, what a shock..brought me pain and tears and then tremendous relief.. I think as others here have said, there is much more to be mined in understanding each of the types and their multiple, nuanced formations. During those British Columbia years Cynthia also worked actively with a Sufi community in Vancouver, and the interspiritual dimensions of her Wisdom teaching took on increasing prominence. In a world of fault lines and fractures, how do we expand our sense of self to include love, healing, and forgivenessnot just for ourselves or those like us, but for all? At first when you begin a practice of meditation, it feels like a place you go to. And in such a way love comes full circle and can fully sustain and make fruitful, and the cycle begins again, at a deeper place. And so again and again I would approach the Seven story as intrinsically energetically congruent, only to be thrown back by the mountain of narrative evidence arguing against it. I feel like you nailed it for me as a 7. Take the Four for instance: The Fours CM is for the ideal or romance. , So insightful, Cynthia! Cynthias illumination of the Centering Prayer path provides compelling evidence of how important the practice has become in the half-century since it first arose among American Trappist monks, and of its maturation and refinement over the ensuing years of sincere study and practice. . But how to stay in touch with that power? Cynthia Bourgeault is a modern day mystic, Episcopal priest, writer, and internationally known retreat leader. Centering Prayer and Inner Awakening is a complete guidebook for all who wish to know the practice of Centering Prayer. Surrender, obedience, attention. The Gluttony for some Sevens is indeed piling up a lifetime full of high living and endless exciting adventures. But for others the gluttony is a continual need for mental stimulation and busyness to avoid the dread of disconnection. Just want to tell you Dear Cynthia how warmly i feel towards you. . But the trauma still lives on in my body in a nervous swallow and residual anxiety around breathing. In my handouts from then on I changed the Avoidance of Sevens from pain (way too genericeveryone avoids pain) to restriction. Having tried out other beds, we find the one that is just right. Theres both the pleasure and also the (sometimes intense) discomfort of seeing ourselves more clearly. Stereotyping is such a huge problem in the Enneagram world. Im teaching the Enneagram to my senior high school students (like Jack!) 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